Laura Silverstein 
One of the most frequent responses to the love language quiz is: “Words of Affirmation.” And principle number two of John Gottman’s Seven Principles for Making Marriage work is: “Nurture Your Fondness and Admiration.” When most couples think about improving their relationships, they focus on learning communication skills or conflict resolution strategies. The truth is, … Read more
When your partner is upset, it’s easy to make mistakes that make the situation worse rather than better. Recognizing and avoiding these common mistakes will help you create healthier relationships with improved communication and conflict-resolution skills. 5 Avoidable Communication Mistakes You Might Be Making If you are experiencing arguments or “dumb” fights in your relationship, … Read more
If you are wondering when to call it quits on your marriage, you are not alone. This is probably the most common question given to marriage and family therapists. Recently I asked my audience to send in their questions and here is what I received back from one of my readers. When should I call … Read more
Find Out Your Intimacy Style With a Free Relationship Personality Quiz What’s your intimacy style? (Physical, Emotional or Intellectual) Are you curious about your intimacy style and how it affects your relationship? Take this free and informative quiz to discover your natural tendency when it comes to intimacy and learn specific personalized tips for improving … Read more
Are you struggling to communicate effectively with your partner? Conversation starters for couples can help. Do conversations often lead to arguments or misunderstandings? Conflict management exercises might be what you need. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Many couples face difficulties in communication at some point in their relationship. But the good news is that there … Read more
Looking for trivia game questions for couples? There are two different kinds of relationship trivia quizzes. This article provides examples of both. Relationship Trivia Game Questions for Couples to Quiz to Test Knowlege about Healthy Relationships Do you know what leads to relationship satisfaction and what leads to separation and unhappiness? Psychologists spend their careers … Read more
[Go directly to the Conflict Style Assessment HERE] Identify Your Conflict Style Conflict can be difficult to navigate, and everyone has their own approach. Our conflict style assessment will help you identify which of the five approaches you use in order to improve your relationships. From there, you can explore strategies to enhance how you … Read more
Have you heard of Roommate Syndrome (or Roommate Phase) but aren’t sure what it is and whether or not you have it? Don’t worry, even though it is a very common problem, it is also very solvable if you are willing to make some small, consistent changes. What Is Roommate Syndrome? It might sound like … Read more
Just like Serena Williams. Why is it that you always feel like you’re the only one working on your relationship? You don’t want a mediocre relationship; you want a stellar one. You want to live a long, happy life together. One where you support, challenge, and cherish each other, have great sex, and lots of … Read more
Love, at first sight, is romantic and magical, but it is also blind. If you and your partner want your relationship to last a lifetime, it is worth taking some time to shine a light on some of your blind spots by asking important questions and checking out your assumptions. You can avoid a lot … Read more