Couples near PA and NY have two main options when it comes to relationship wellness programs.

1. They can create their own romantic getaway at any resort of their choosing. This allows for a a romantic getaway and offers scheduling flexibility. The downside is that couples won't receive professional guidance or skill-building exercises.
2. They can register for a weekend workshop. These programs are usually held in urban locations at a hotel ballroom. Couples receive skill building exercises and professional guidance. The downside is that the location might not be as romantic or relaxing.

The Love Is an Action Verb Couples Therapy Retreat offers the best of both worlds. It is offered at a resort in the mountains while also providing seminars, individualized support and free time for rest and relaxation.

The Complete Love Is an Action Verb Package includes:

• Deluxe King Lodging for Two
• Breakfast, Lunch and Snacks (Dinner not included)
• Personalized coaching from Michael and Laura
• Semi-Private Seminars with Action-Oriented Strategies and Practice Sessions
• Funny, warm and enthusiastic presenters who know how to help couples find happiness
• Love Is an Action Verb Workbook (and some other surprise merch 🙂
• Hiking trails, indoor and outdoor swimming pools, boating and much more

Additional Add-Ons

• Zip-Lining Adventure Course
• Golf
• 3 Restaurant Options for private, romantic dinners Friday and Saturday Night

We call this weekend getaway the Love Is an Action Verb Retreat because it is based on Laura's book. She is a certified Gottman Couples Therapist with over 30 years of experience. This retreat is the culmination of all she has learned from her advanced training combined with practical aspects she has learned from the couples she works with.

This is considered a couples therapy retreat because both Michael and Laura are licensed couples therapists who are teaching you strategies and skills they use in their couples therapy offices.

These techniques are evidence-based and backed by science.

This Poconos weekend getaway couples retreat is ideal for any couple who dreams of a deep and fulfilling relationship with their partner.

Whether you’re dating, newlyweds, or coming up on your 50th wedding anniversary, you will benefit from carving out time to prioritize relationship health.

It is NOT indicated for couples who are in or fear they may be in an abusive or toxic relationship. If you are not sure if this retreat is indicated, schedule a conversation with Laura to discuss your specific concerns.

The Skytop Lodge is Poconos resort, 2 hours from Philadelphia, PA and New York, NY.

It is located in the breathtaking Pocono Mountains and is elegant an luxurious while also maintaining a relaxed, rustic feel. Non-stop activities are available for all guests, including archery, tennis, hiking, pickle-ball and lawn bowling.

There is also ample space for quiet rest and relaxation amidst the beautiful mountain gardens.

Guests of the Love Is an Action Verb Couples Therapy Retreat are housed in special deluxe rooms in the cottages. These rooms offer extra space and additional privacy.

You'll enjoy a king sized bed, fridge, microwave plush bathrobes and a fireplace.

Gottman couples workshops have been shown to achieve results similar to those of 6 months of couples therapy. Research showed that 94% of workshop attendees reported positive result.

Prior participants of this Love Is an Action Verb Retreat describe it as "exactly what we needed" and "fun, funny and incredibly helpful."

You will receive a full refund (minus a 5% processing fee) if you cancel 45 days prior to the event. Later cancellations are non-refundable.

We understand that some circumstances happen that are beyond your control. We are required to settle up with the resort 30 days prior to the event so unfortunately are unable to offer refunds after 30 days.

In the event that there is an active waiting list, and another couple is able to fill your slot, we will provide you with a full refund minus 5% service fee.

If no one from the waiting list is able to fill your slot, here are your options:

1. You may sell or gift your package to a couple you find on your own.
2. You may use your payment as a credit for a future event.
3. You may use your accommodations at Skytop Lodge in another capacity

Yes. If you are not near PA or NY, or a weekend away is not in your budget, check out our DIY Online Couples Retreat. This video series includes step-by-step instructions for how to create your own retreat.

It's easy to follow the advice and do your homework exercises as soon as you carve out the time. Learn more HERE.

No.

Michael and Laura strongly believe in the wisdom each couple brings into their relationship.

This is your couples therapy retreat and none of the programming is required. You may alter any recommendations according to what works for you.

There are no prerequisites to attending a couples retreat. The weekend is self-contained and is appropriate even if you’ve never heard of Dr. John Gottman, or Laura and Michael Silverstein.

Some find it helpful to check out some of the information on our website, but even this is not required.

No. (Unless you want to)

The seminars include a combination of lectures, classroom discussions, and private opportunities for you and your partner to practice skills. Michael and Laura rove through the room to offer personalized guidance and answer questions.

While it is not required to share private information, you might find that a natural community forms. The environment is relaxed and supportive, and you will be meeting other like-minded couples who are also passionate about self-growth.

This can often help people recognize that their struggles are normal and they are not alone in the challenge of maintaining a healthy relationship.

Yes.

The main buildings are all ADA compliant, and staff will accommodate accessibility needs with golf carts and other creative ways to help each individual receive the best experience they can with the activities they choose.

No.

This particular couples therapy retreat is designed for two people. Each seminar includes break-out sessions with communication practice exercises.

If you are looking for ways to improve your relationship health on your own, we recommend Love Is an Action Verb, by Laura Silverstein. It's a relationship self-help book you can read on your own with a specific focus on what you, alone, can do to improve your relationship.

Yes.

We are committed to inclusion regarding who people love and how they love. While the workshop is designed to be dyadic, the exercises can be altered to fit your individual needs. Please schedule a consult with Laura to discuss your specific situation.