Find Out Your Intimacy Style With a Free Relationship Personality Quiz
Are you curious about your intimacy style and how it affects your relationship? Take this free and informative quiz to discover what your natural tendency is when it comes to intimacy and learn specific personalized tips for improving your relationship.
What are the Four Styles of Intimacy in Relationships?
There are four intimacy connection styles in primary romantic relationships.
- Emotional Intimacy Connection Style
- Physical Intimacy Connection Style
- Intellectual Intimacy Connection Style
- Avoidant Intimacy Connection Style
We all experience these four kinds of intimacy at different times, and most people have one or two primary preferences regarding their favorite way to connect. The one thing these styles all have in common is that they have to do with vulnerability. The mind-body-heart connection is real. We can connect with our minds (intellectual intimacy), our bodies (physical intimacy), and our hearts (emotional intimacy). This connection occurs by taking risks with our partners in sharing different parts of ourselves to build trust and deepen connection.
- Intellectual Intimacy results from intellectual vulnerability when we are curious and admit what we don’t know
- Physical Intimacy results from physical vulnerability when we share our bodies in a way that both parties enjoy
- Emotional Intimacy results from emotional vulnerability when we share our feelings
- Intimacy Avoidance results from a limited level of vulnerability when we choose not to share (often as protection from getting hurt)
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Answering these questions will help you better understand your current intimacy style and how it affects and shapes your relationships. You’ll receive an individualized report on the benefits and challenges of your preferred style and recommended resources and next steps.
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